Nigerian crossdresser Bobrisky has sparked online reactions after sharing a detailed list of conditions he says must be met by anyone interested in dating or marrying him.
The post, shared on his Instagram page, came shortly after the ongoing controversy surrounding BBNaija star Angel Smith’s marital issues, with Bobrisky outlining what he expects in a relationship, ranging from financial commitment to privacy boundaries and behavioural expectations.
According to him, any serious partner must agree to a written understanding covering loyalty, financial support, and respect for personal boundaries.
“If you claim you like me, you wanna date me or marry me, this is the list I’m gonna be asking you for,” he wrote.
He went on to list several demands, beginning with unrestricted access to his partner’s social media accounts.
“1) your Instagram password, I want to see all ur dm”
Bobrisky also stated that any gifts received during the relationship should remain his permanently, even if the relationship ends.
“2) You are signing a contract with me that any gift you buy for me in that relationship, cars, house, etc., belongs to me, and you are not collecting it back if at all either of us is tired of the relationship”
He further insisted that breakups should not be discussed publicly, warning of consequences if that rule is violated.
“3) If we break up, none of us will come online to type shit !!!! Otherwise, you will be arrested and prosecuted.”
On financial expectations, he demanded regular upkeep allowances from a partner.
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“4) monthly salary for feeding and my baddie upkeep”
He also addressed infidelity, stating that while mistakes may happen, it would come with major financial consequences.
“5) If you cheat on me, no problem. No human is perfect, we all make mistake thou 80% of ur properties and network goes to me”
Bobrisky added that disrespect from a partner’s family would not be tolerated under any circumstance.
“6) if ur family, ur mother, and your siblings disrespected me in any way, they are banned from coming to my husband’s house.”
He also made strict rules about his partner’s movements and household behaviour.
“7) On no occasion must you sleep outside. I want to see my man’s face daily”
“8) If at all, I will attend my husband’s family event as ur wife, as I am not joining any other co-wives to cook. If they wanna cook, they should hire catering services”
Additional conditions included regular luxury travel and restricted visitation hours.
“9) Every 3 months, you have to take me on vacation trips, spoil me with gifts, and all”
“10) No visitors allowed after 10pm”
Concluding his post, Bobrisky made it clear that only a partner willing to accept all the conditions would be considered.
“Thank you… If you can follow all these instructions, I’m all urs”
Prompt News reports the post has since generated widespread reactions online, with many debating the expectations and tone of the list.
