Browsing: Intimacy

I have seen cases of those who build a fantastic Eldorado of life in Nigeria. Many of them have japada to UK and US because of lack of planning.

Putting money above companionship and not considering the long-term effect of Japa on marriage is swelling the ranks of divorced men and women.

Let me draw our attention to one of the major factors why the incident or situation of an abusive marriage thrives.

I have been living abroad for the last thirty-four years sir. I got tired. I got separated. I got fed up. I could not cope any more with the cold.

If you still think these recent spousal murders do not really concern you, take a look at your daughter, your son and tell yourself you can vouch for the spouses they will end up with.

When we say or hear that a wife should step back from a marriage that has become life-threatening, what most of us think is that it is about physical abuse.

She became emotional and dabbed her teary eyes. All the insults being hurled at her in London was because of survival and the need to provide for her kids.

Sometimes a love experience does not end in marriage and till death do you part. But it does not take away from the solid fact that for the rest of your life, you will never forget it.

Abusive marriage is one that one should not wish for even an adversary. It comes in various shades and versions.…

The pull to come to the UK was irresistible. One of my friends here painted a picture of Eden where life is comfortable. I built a fantasy of riches and a life of ease and enjoyment.